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At North Creek we have this phrase that makes me laugh…”Find Your People”  It’s the idea that although you can probably enjoy many types of people, there are also those certain types of people that you tend to gravitate towards.  We strongly encourage people to get into small groups where they are surrounded by “their people”.  In fact, we actually encourage you to keep trying different groups until you feel like you are the missing piece of that group’s puzzle.  We want you to belong!

I find great comfort in the system.  It’s a lot like high school with jocks, nerds, goths, etc…yes, I just dated myself!  The only exception is that in high school it’s hard to get into the crowd you want to be in and there’s a negative stigma about some certain groups.  At North Creek all of the groups of people are on the same footing and our arms are wide open if you want to come in.

For instance, scrapbookers are a breed all to themselves.  They use words that I don’t understand and get more excited about paper than most men get if their football team wins.  Scrapbookers want to be together with other scrapbookers while they cut and paste until they are too exhausted to see.  Scrapbookers go for long weekends to fancy hotels…to scrapbook.  They are “their people”.  They should be together.  

I have my people as well.  I have people like Nichole Lundervold who came up to me after church to compliment my font on this week’s bulletin.  That’s a graphic designers way of saying to another graphic designer, “I love who you are and am so excited to have you in my life.”  Most people do not compliment my fonts.  They don’t particularily care about my fonts.  Nichole makes me comfortable because she understands that part of my world.  Other types of “my people” include people who think way too much about leadership, have toddlers, or obsess over the show Design to Sell. 

So, come, find your people!  There are all sorts of amazing, wonderful, talented people at North Creek to meet and discover.  They are all great, but somewhere in the midst of the excellence will be just the niche that you’ve been looking for!  And you can proudly leave all of your scars from high school behind!!!!

(Below is a high school picture from one of our board members.  I’m thinking he was in the popular crowd in the 80’s with that awesome head of hair!)  I’ll let you know how long it takes until he notices his picture is up on my blog…You’ve got to love a church where our board members are this cool!

Mark and I love change!  When everything is going so smoothly that you can do it with your eyes closed and you’re so comfortable with the system that you can relax, something begins to bubble up inside of us.  How can we do this better?  How can we involve more people in the system?  How can we make the dream bigger and harder to reach?

We feel that need to stir things up again now that we are two years into this church plant.  Honestly, I’m relieved.  I thought that starting a church would be so hard that it would take a decade to settle down again.  Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean to make this whole thing seem easy, but God gave North Creek so many amazingly competent people that we have it down pretty well.

I’m excited in my spirit.  I’m a big fan of faith.  If I can do it in my own strength, it’s not very fun for me.  If God has to show up to make it work, that’s where I like to live. 

So, let’s all get ready for the next ride.  It’s always a ton of work, but the stories that come out of it are worth the expense!

 I love listening to my husband, Mark, talk right before we go to bed.  He is relaxed and tends to reflect on the people in his life that he appreciates.  He tells a funny story from the day about the kids or laughs at the latest crazy adventure that we are on.  Lately he has been consumed with the thoughts of how to reach as many people with the love of Christ that he can.  It is with that heart that we wrote this week’s email for our church email group (you can sign up to receive our emails at www.coffeechurch.com).  I included it below for those of you who might not get our regular emails:

 

September brings fond memories of two years ago when we were preparing for the launch of the first service for North Creek Church.  Thirty-nine people (including kids) had worked and prayed for months just for September 24 to come.  And when it arrived, I couldn’t sleep, eat, or think about anything else…except people.  How many would come?  What did they look like?  What was their story?  How would Jesus impact their futures and how would North Creek play a part in that?

 

I can remember watching out the windows of Salmon Creek Elementary just praying that somebody would show up that first morning.  And when they did I was both amazed and thankful to God for entrusting our church with their lives.  Some of the faces that I saw that day became some of the closest friends I have now.  And the stories that have been told from those lives still keep me up at night.  I am humbled by the impact that we’ve been given by God.  And that is why I am more convinced of the direction that God has put on my heart for the fall.

 

My commitment is to do whatever it takes to keep us from being comfortable in the blessings that God has given us.  We have amazing people, we are able to pay the bills, our systems and strategies seem to be working…and it’s not enough.  Today my heart beats refreshed in the purpose that started this church in the beginning…people.

 

We are committed to the mission of God!  With all of our heart and soul!  And I look forward to stretching North Creek Church again to the edges of faith in order to reach more with the love of Jesus.  I can’t wait to share with you about what is on my heart.

School started this week for just about every kid in Vancouver.  What an interesting phenomenon!  You can almost feel the anxiety in the air.  New experiences, new friends, new systems to learn, and reputations to uphold.  Delaney marched off to preschool on Wednesday with new clothes, freshly scrubbed from head to toe, and a little lipstick…because she is ALL girl!  You could see her look around the room for something familiar to gain a little comfort from.  Thankfully she had attended the same preschool last year and several friends returned as well, so she quickly acclimated.  She ended up having a great time and skipped out 2 and a half hours later, so I’m pretty sure she’ll go back with a new boldness.

I imagine that anxiety is replicated when an adult walks into a church for the first time…especially if they have never been to a church before.  How do I dress?  What do I do?  Will I stand out from all of the “regulars”? 

At North Creek we do our best to alleviate as much tension as possible for our first time guests.  Here’s the general experience at North Creek…

You walk right through the doors to a coffee pot.  This is so you can be armed with a hot liquid.  This completely stops strangers from feeling the need to hug you.  We have great children’s areas that allow you to put your children in an environment that is fun, loud, and full of energy.  This keeps your kids from having to sit with you in something called a “pew” and be still and quiet for two solid hours. 

As you make your way into the main auditorium, you be relieved to notice that you don’t need to sit in a “pew” either.  We have chairs…normal ones that allow you to have your own space.  The nice guy at the door will hand you a program of some of the things you can expect at North Creek.  This handy little thing will give you the opportunity to look busy reading so that you don’t have to talk to people if you don’t want to.  If you do make yourself available to mingle, you won’t be ignored.  We all like socializing…a lot. 

The stage will be decorated really creatively and the music will be uplifting.  Don’t worry, the guy who leads the music won’t ask you to stand up, raise your hands, or do a dance with a tamborine.  As our guest, you can just sit in your seat and drink your coffee if you want to.  Go ahead and just drink it all in…the coffee and our environment.

The message will be relevant and brief…no two hour service for you, either.  You’ll be out of that room in an hour from start to finish, so the awkwardness will pass quickly.  The preacher will also be speaking in words that real people understand and doing a great job of explaining new concepts.  You’ll learn, you’ll grow, and it will be understandable with or without a master’s degree in Bible.

So, that’s our strategy in a nutshell.  We want you to feel what Jesus made people feel…comfortable, disarmed, and excited to become a better person.

Delaney got in the car after preschool on Wednesday and said, “I like making new friends.  It’s fun.”  And North Creek is that simple…come, make new friends, it’s fun.  Community in every cup!

Have you read the story of Jonah lately?  Mark preached on Jonah yesterday, so I was reading a little bit about him again to refresh my memory.  The story of Jonah is way too familiar, but most people don’t read the whole story.  The end is the most interesting part…

Long story short, God tells Jonah to preach to people he doesn’t like, Jonah says no, runs, ends up inside a fish, gets puked up, go to the people he doesn’t like, end of story…or not.  Here is what Jonah has to say after God used him to impact a HUGE city:

Jonah 4

Jonah’s Anger at the Lord ‘s Compassion

 1 But Jonah was greatly displeased and became angry. 2 He prayed to the LORD, “O LORD, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity. 3 Now, O LORD, take away my life, for it is better for me to die than to live.”

 4 But the LORD replied, “Have you any right to be angry?”

 5 Jonah went out and sat down at a place east of the city. There he made himself a shelter, sat in its shade and waited to see what would happen to the city. 6 Then the LORD God provided a vine and made it grow up over Jonah to give shade for his head to ease his discomfort, and Jonah was very happy about the vine. 7 But at dawn the next day God provided a worm, which chewed the vine so that it withered. 8 When the sun rose, God provided a scorching east wind, and the sun blazed on Jonah’s head so that he grew faint. He wanted to die, and said, “It would be better for me to die than to live.”

 9 But God said to Jonah, “Do you have a right to be angry about the vine?”
      “I do,” he said. “I am angry enough to die.”

 10 But the LORD said, “You have been concerned about this vine, though you did not tend it or make it grow. It sprang up overnight and died overnight. 11 But Nineveh has more than a hundred and twenty thousand people who cannot tell their right hand from their left, and many cattle as well. Should I not be concerned about that great city?”

AND THAT’S THE END OF THE BOOK!

After all of the complaining, God helping him to understand the importance of obedience, seeing God change thousands of lives…he’s still complaining!  He closes his chapter in history with a pity party! 

I am ashamed to say that I have seen that all too often among Christians in the last 20 years.  We’ll find the one thing about a church that we don’t like and point that out.  We’ll analyze a sermon and pick it apart as if we could do better.  We’ll take the time to tell people what is wrong with the system rather than what is right.

Jonah is a challenge to me.  If my chapter closed today, what would I be saying?  Would I be working toward bettering the system or would I be pointing out everything wrong with it?  I have a very critical eye for excellence, but Jonah really challenges me to keep my hands working and my mouth shut!