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I’m a little late on my highlights this week because it was too gorgeous of a day to be typing! Loved the sun with my little ladies for the last few days.

Happy (belated) Mother’s Day! It’s always a day that we take to honor ALL women! We are so hard on ourselves at times, but if you look at Scripture, God thinks highly of you! He made you very complex and He did a good job. Walk in that confidence and enjoy being a woman!

And another pregnancy was announced yesterday! Since it was on Facebook, it’s safe to blog…congrats to Chrystal and Rene Arellano!

I know that Mother’s Day is tough for those of you who have lost a mother, a child, or are struggling to get pregnant. God definitely can meet you where you are and you can trust Him to handle your heart with tender grace. We serve a God that loves us more than we can imagine and has a plan for us, even in the midst of the challenges. That being said, grieving is an important part of our lives as well.

Kris and I spoke the same message on opposite campuses on Sunday. We also partnered our sermon with a video of some of our team ladies sharing about their own highs and lows of motherhood and mentoring. They all did a beautiful job sharing with us!

I love my mom!!!

Small groups kick off this week. Ours was last night and we had a great time! We are having a potluck and then a curriculum. No church is complete without a potluck. Good times! If you haven’t been contacted by your group leader, shoot us an email at office@coffeechurch.com because there’s probably a computer glitch somewhere in the system.

We took an offering for summer camp scholarships on Sunday and had a great response. If you were at the beach (yeah, we saw you on Facebook!), you can give anytime over the next month, as we have LOTS of kids and youth to help!

Great new series are starting next Sunday at Battle Ground and Hazel Dell! We’ll see you then!

My oldest daughter just started gymnastics. She’s a very likable person, but when she walked into the class of 7 little girls, you could feel the insecurity all over her. She tried to look at ease, but her arms folded across her chest and as a mom I knew that she wanted to get out of there…and fast. Unfortunately I also knew that letting her feel those emotions and walk through them was a good thing. It took her two more lessons to actually feel comfortable enough to enjoy herself. Now she says she’s never quitting!

Joining a small group at the church can surface similar emotions. It’s tough to put yourself out there and show up at someone’s house, hoping to make new friends or at least not be surrounded by strange people. And here’s what I want to tell you: sign up, show up, fold your arms across your chest if you need to, but jump in! Just as my daughter is now hooked, so will you be!

There are two days left for small group signups and we want you to be a part. We have so many amazing groups happening in our community this time around and the best part is that they end just when school gets out!

Being a part of a growing relationship with Jesus and people who are growing alongside you is the whole point of the Church! You can sign up by clicking HERE!

I loved this article, so I wanted to share it with you. It is focused towards businesses, but so much of it applies to parenting, marriage, ministry…don’t be afraid to do the wrong thing…just do SOMEthing. Here’s the link to the original source, but it’s also copied below. Any Action Is Better than None

Four Reasons Any Action Is Better than None by Rosabeth Kanter

It’s well-known that busy people get the most done. Their secret is simple: They never stop moving.

Of course, sitting still can be a good thing if it involves renewal, reflection, and focused attention (or having meals with the family). But sitting still can be a bad thing if it involves procrastination, indecision, and passivity.

Companies heading downhill have passive cultures. Unmade decisions pile up. Opportunities are lost. No one wants to risk making a mistake. It becomes easier to sit it out than get into the game. One of my favorite examples involves the backwater bank in which employees would send customers who had complicated problems to the rival bank across the street, rather than try to do anything.

In contrast, in companies with high levels of innovation, people take initiative. They start new things. They don’t wait to be told. They get routine work done efficiently in order to free up the time to get involved in something new. Here are some of the reasons.

Small wins matter. Small wins pave the way for bigger wins. A nudge in the right direction, as Cass Sunstein and the new behavioral economists tell us, can lead to major tipping points (per Malcolm Gladwell) when you achieve critical mass. As I saw in my study of business turnarounds and sports teams, confidence — the expectation of a positive outcome that motivates high levels of effort — is built on one win at a time.

Accomplishments come in pieces. A journey of a thousand miles is daunting. The single step with which the journey begins is manageable. Every step you take now adds up by getting that much closer to a goal. Busy people in high-productivity environments tend to take just one more action, return one more phone call, set one more thing in motion before calling it quits for the day. By tomorrow, new demands will start piling up. Mental tricks like dividing big tasks into numerous small steps make it possible to identify immediate actions to get big things off the ground.

Perfection is unattainable anyway. Forget perfection. Just do it. So what if you’re wrong? You can always try again. In an uncertain world of rapid change, business strategy includes room for improvisation. Live by some classic slogans: Best is the enemy of good. (Don’t wait for perfect conditions.) Nothing ventured, nothing gained. (It takes a little risk to get rewards.)

Actions produce energy and momentum. It simply feels better to take action than sitting around navel-gazing and getting sluggish. Overwork can bring stress, but, in fact, many studies show that the important factor in work stress is lack of control. Identifying a positive action is a way to feel in control. Getting moving doesn’t drain energy; it tends to build energy. For people trying to solve the national obesity epidemic, or just to lose a few pounds, exercise is more fun than dieting.

These principles represent more than management tips. They reflect a can-do philosophy that is essential for any entrepreneur or any place that wants more entrepreneurs. The only way to activate potential is to support action.

Sometimes it doesn’t seem easy. Organizational cultures, autocratic bosses, uncooperative co-workers, long losing streaks, the uncertainty of shifting industry conditions, and big world events like natural disasters and revolutions can stop people in their tracks. But those who emerge triumphant, and get the most done anyway, are the people who would rather take action, any action, than wait around.

As always, I recap the weekends and how our services went. It’s fun for me to celebrate what God has done – not only on Sunday, but in the hearts and lives of our people throughout the week! So here goes:

KidCity learned about baptism yesterday. Parents – such a great opportunity to talk to your kids about how they are doing with their relationship with Jesus. Here’s a tip: Buy your kids a grade-appropriate Bible. They can read it all by themselves (or with you!) and learn to have a relationship with God that is all their own.

I met more new people at Battle Ground 10:00 and Hazel Dell 11:00 than I can count! It was nuts! Thank you for coming to visit us. God changes lives at North Creek and we’d love to have you as a part. Hazel Dell 9:30 – don’t feel left out, I just wasn’t there this week!

Both Chris and Mark preached great messages. Mark spoke the last sermon of our Words series, while Chris finished up Mind Games with a sermon on Anger. Next week is Mother’s Day, so the ladies are taking the stage. We are doing part of our sermon in video so that both campuses can hear from multiple women about either being a mom or the impact that their mom had on their lives. It will be a really uplifting, encouraging, and fun service!

We had to bring in more chairs at Battle Ground! We look forward to the day when we get to add another service. God – fill empty chairs and empty hearts.

James Lundervold blessed us with his presence yesterday in Hazel Dell. He was just a few days old, so he might get the prize for youngest baby ever to attend a service!

We are still believing this is the year of miracles for North Creek. So far it seems that God is definitely holding up His end of the bargain! Are you praying? We aren’t done with 2012 yet…not even close!

Really encouraged as we go forward in our new systems week by week. There are still a billion bugs to work out, but every week seems to be getting exponentially smoother and easier. I guess the moral of the story is to stick with your vision even when you’re not sure what the end looks like. Sometimes you’ve got to finish what you start to see if it’s going to work. That’s a great life lesson…especially for your marriage. Work hard on your marriage until you die and see how it goes…

We got to honor Wayne and Jenny yesterday as well. The former Maple Grove congregation got together and refurbished his sax, so we gave that and another gift to them. We got to thank them for being an example to us that is amazing!

On that note, living for Jesus is the BEST! So thankful that I met him 26 years ago! Have a blessed week!